Desktop: Fix missing resize events causing all-gray window on Mac after launch (#3445)

* okayish solution

should be improved at some point but for now it works well enough.

* do leftover renames

* better solution

* less weird resize frames

* move surface reconfiguration

* fix recent desktop mac breakages

* better looking resize on mac

* fix background color

* Fix blank screen on window initialization

* cleanup

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Co-authored-by: Keavon Chambers <keavon@keavon.com>

desktop/wrapper/src/intercept_frontend_message.rs

@@ -111,10 +111,7 @@ pub(super) fn intercept_frontend_message(dispatcher: &mut DesktopWrapperMessageD
 			dispatcher.respond(DesktopFrontendMessage::PersistenceLoadPreferences);
 		}
 		#[cfg(target_os = "macos")]
-		FrontendMessage::UpdateMenuBarLayout {
-			layout_target: graphite_editor::messages::tool::tool_messages::tool_prelude::LayoutTarget::MenuBar,
-			diff,
-		} => {
+		FrontendMessage::UpdateMenuBarLayout { diff } => {
 			use graphite_editor::messages::tool::tool_messages::tool_prelude::{DiffUpdate, WidgetDiff};
 			match diff.as_slice() {
 				[